Every Sunday at 5pm, our family sits down for a 20-minute meeting. Me, Mike, Miles (12), and Zelda (9). There’s an agenda. There are action items. There’s a “wins” section where each person shares something good from the week.
It sounds corporate. It’s not. It’s the single most useful thing we’ve done as a family since moving to Milwaukee.
Why we started doing this
When we moved from Long Beach to Shorewood, everything was chaos. New school schedules, new activities, new routines, two kids processing a major life change in completely different ways. We were constantly forgetting things, double-booking, and having the same “wait, is that this week?” conversation every day.
I needed a system. Not a family calendar app (we tried three, they all failed). A real system where everyone knows what’s happening, what needs to get done, and what’s coming up.
The Notion setup
We have a simple Notion database called “Family HQ.” It has:
- A weekly view with this week’s events, to-dos, and deadlines
- A meal plan for the week (filled in during the meeting)
- A section for each kid’s school stuff — projects, events, forms that need signing
- An OohBae Kitchen section (the cookie business has its own logistics)
- A “coming up” section for things 2-4 weeks out
Nothing fancy. No complicated templates. Just the stuff our family needs to track, in one place we all look at.
Where Claude Cowork comes in
Every Sunday morning, I run my family meeting prep skill in Claude Cowork. Here’s what it does:
- Pulls the week ahead from our calendar
- Checks what’s due or coming up for each kid
- Flags any scheduling conflicts
- Suggests a meal plan based on what we liked recently and what’s in season
- Generates an agenda with time estimates for each topic
The agenda looks something like this:
- Wins (3 min) — each person shares one good thing
- Calendar review (5 min) — what’s happening this week
- School stuff (3 min) — anything due, any forms, any events
- OohBae update (2 min) — Zelda’s business corner
- Meal plan (5 min) — review and adjust the AI-suggested plan
- Action items (2 min) — who’s doing what
Claude generates this based on our family’s actual context. It knows Miles has therapy on Wednesdays. It knows Zelda has a baking deadline every other Friday. It knows Mike coaches soccer on Saturdays. The agenda is specific to our week, not a generic template.
How the meeting actually goes
We sit at the dining table. I pull up the agenda on my laptop. The kids take turns reading sections out loud (Miles was resistant at first but now he likes the structure — predictable format is good for him).
The wins section is the most important part. It’s easy to skip, but don’t. It sets the tone. Zelda once said her win was “I only cried at school one time this week” and it turned into a real conversation about how she was adjusting. That wouldn’t have happened without the prompt.
We go through the calendar, flag conflicts, assign tasks. The meal plan gets adjusted based on who’s going to be home for dinner each night. Action items get written down — real ones, with names attached.
Total time: 15-20 minutes. The kids don’t love it, but they accept it. And honestly, the weeks where we skip the meeting always feel more chaotic.
The results after 6 months
- We haven’t missed a school deadline since we started
- Meal planning actually happens (we used to wing it every night)
- The kids know what’s coming and aren’t blindsided by schedule changes
- Mike and I fight less about logistics because everything is documented
- Miles handles transitions better when he can see the week ahead
How to set this up yourself
You need three things:
- A Notion page (or any shared doc) with your family’s recurring info
- A Claude Cowork setup with your family context — schedules, preferences, dietary needs, school info
- A weekly time slot that’s non-negotiable (Sunday evenings work for us)
The AI part takes about an hour to set up in a 1:1 session. The Notion part takes 30 minutes. The hard part is actually doing the meeting every week. But once it’s a habit, you won’t want to stop.
If you want help setting this up, that’s exactly what my Claude Cowork for Moms and Claude Cowork for Life sessions cover. Or grab the weekly family meeting recipe from the recipe library — it’s free.
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